Whisper My Name , Karen.

Confinement process..

Friday, June 17, 2011 @ 2:34 PM

YAY!!! Exactly 1 week more to end my confinement & not forgetting,
Fion's turning 1 month old too.

Shall fast forward the time and share how i spend my days at home for the whole month.

I always call her baby & fion.

5 success:

1.Did not shower at all ( even after 12 days) i'm still wiping my body with warm water & white rice wine.

2.Did not wash my hair at all relying on dry shampoo daily which dry my scalp & make it so itchy!

2.Drinking red date longan water from day to dusk and dusk til day like plain water.

3.Eating an entire plate of vege/meat/fish with sliced old ginger and sesame oil everyday.

4.Resist the temptation of eating my tint of B&J's ice-cream when hus scoop a few spoons for himself.

5 failure:

1.I went to my usual salon and did a scalp treatment & hair cut 10 days before my confinement ends.

2.I went out without wearing longsleeves and long pants but only clad in a tee & shorts.

3.I secretly ate some durians/lychees and food that i'm not suppose to consume right now.

4.I didnt drink the martell with chicken essence my mil brew & i will never drink DOM again.

5.I sleep in air-conditoned room (because fion sweat like free when i on the fan) due to this weather.

Hahahahaha! Okay lah like this also can pass the disgusting 30 days also very good already.

Although i did them 50-50 only, other mommies who've done confinement before knows how i feel.

And not engaging any confinement lady, doing it all alone and some help from my mil is not easy.

Imagine after you've undergone a c-sect with a cut across ur lower tummy, pain til can cry out tears,

but you've to wake up every 2 hours to feed baby milk, bend down to change diaper & carrying...

After i discharge i never had the time to lie down at all (even though my gynae ask me to do so)

cos when we reach home, there's so much of things to do and to settle down baby in a new enviroment.

I'll never forget how much pain is that ( reason being, i didnt continue to take any painkillers).

I remember when she cried i didnt had the strength to get down from my bed bcos of my wound.

And when the night falls when everyone's dead asleep , i've to get up on my own w/o any help.

PAIN X1000000000000. It's so hard to move about and let alone, carry baby up from her cot.

But come to think of it, i wonder how i did it as i overcome.

And why i so dumb never continue to eat the painkiller, i thought i was suppose to stop eating

until i went for my check up at my usual clinic...

Gynae: So is it still painful?

Me: Yah when i move about.

Gynae: You never eat the painkiller?

Me: No after i discharge i never eat anymore.

Gynae: Wah.. strong lor.

DUMB! like that mean i should continue to eat when i'm in pain what! But why......

HAISSSSSSSSSS!!!! -.-

Well anyway, since i've come so far i should save this post at the side of my blog so in future,

if i've the chance or i'm so lucky to have a second one, i will read back & be more clever.

After giving birth i think only half of my brain got power only, i keep forgetting things like a kuku bird.

I can bring in the pail w/o any water to my room and only realise when i'm about to clean my body.

Why like this? How come like that? But after birth, most woman suffers from STM. so it's normal~

At least i never spread toothpaste instead of nutella on hus's bread.

Okay, and not forgetting about the daddy...

He's down with a flu and fever earlier this week and stayed at home for 2 days on Mc.

Busy like a bee, handling Fion and him at night. Pasting fever pad and covering blanket for him.

Very afraid his fever will fly up in the midnight cos he didnt want to eat any fever medicine!!!

Want him to eat medicine like want his life, swallow 1 pill like stabbing his chest.

I always have a hard time coaxing him to eat 1 pill, sibei jialut like a big baby.

I hope, I hope i really hope Fion won't be like him. *POR PI POR PI*

>.<

And he's still having a runny & block nose now because.... you know why alr.

I already apply vicks for him when he's sleeping but he's as stubborn as a mule.

He doesnt want to eat pills. So his flu is not recovering at all.

And because of his flu, he couldnt go near fion and play with her for 4 days alr...

He only can keep calling her name, look at her before he goes and back from work.

Cannot kiss her goodnight, cannot touch his nose with her nose & cannot play with her lil hands.

ORBI QUACK! Hahahaha

Although he's a pain in my ass whenever he's sick but...

still lovin' him loads

Even though he knows i've been online shopping everyday,

he didnt nag at me but instead he transferred money to me when i told him to.

& there's lots more of a reason why i'm loving him more and more each day.

We've been married for 6months already! I always refer to the side of my blog....

Not so free to note down and celebrate what monthsary every month.

I only look forward to the month of December cos..

4th: 1 year to our marriage

24th: Fion's a month older on this day

25th: It's x'mas and i love this festival the most!

25th: Marks our 1 year together on this day.

4/12/11...

We're married for 1 year! <3

25/12/11...

It'll be our 5 years Anniversary! <3

Love Big Lin and Small Xuan & I'm Medium Hui..

Yucks! WTF.

Anyway Fion's baby shower is this coming sunday ,and also next sunday at my place..

So hope to see everyone soon! (: